fix: resolve 17 confirmed bash-parity drifts from port review

Adversarial parity review of every ported action against its bash source
confirmed 17 real behavioral drifts (of 22 claimed); all fixed here:

- tiers/chown: defaults were compositions/apex/tierN (one level too deep);
  now the tier roots. shared/ base reset is non-recursive again.
- compose: --dry-run was swallowed by argparse.REMAINDER; now stripped.
- host.write_file: rendered files land 0644 (tempfile's 0600 made fresh
  systemd units/crowdsec configs owner-only).
- systemd.deploy_units: top-level non-hidden files only.
- ufw: missing docker/host config dir exits 66; missing /etc/ufw target
  aborts; empty rules dir warns; dotfile .rules excluded.
- sync/packages: Telegram error-trap parity and failed notify exits 1.
  Same notify-failure exit for backup/run and sync/repository.
  repository regains the node-dir guard.
- tiers/useradd: no more secret-bearing .env.bak per run.
- tiers/link: EOF on confirm prompt declines and continues.
- extract-traefik-certs: sudo mkdir inside the notify envelope.
- generate-happ-subscriptions: realpath parent-exists guards + docker check.
- configure/crowdsec: bouncer install goes through install_packages.
- lint-docker-compose: malformed/unreadable anchor-IP inputs are lint errors.
- core compose: APEX_RESTIC_REPOSITORY now ?error; RESTIC_COMPRESSION
  per-node via APEX_RESTIC_COMPRESSION (default auto).
- sys.service_exists line-anchored; tpl docstring corrected.

actions/configure/crowdsec.py

@@ -20,5 +20,5 @@ def run(ctx, args):
         if os.path.isfile(bouncer) and not ctx.sys.ok(
                 ["bash", "-c", "dpkg -l | grep -q crowdsec-firewall-bouncer-iptables"]):
             ctx.log.info("Installing crowdsec-firewall-bouncer-iptables...")
-            ctx.sys.sudo(["apt-get", "install", "-y", "crowdsec-firewall-bouncer-iptables"])
+            ctx.sys.install_packages(["crowdsec-firewall-bouncer-iptables"])
     ctx.log.success("Configured crowdsec.")

actions/configure/ufw.py

@@ -13,7 +13,12 @@ def run(ctx, args):
     docker_dir = os.path.join(cfg, "docker")
     host_dir = os.path.join(cfg, "host")
     ctx.log.info("Configuring UFW rules...")
-    if not os.path.isdir(docker_dir):
+    # Mirrors the bash branch structure: host dir is passed unconditionally (a missing
+    # one exits 66 inside apply); both dirs missing = warn + success, like bash.
+    if os.path.isdir(docker_dir):
+        ctx.ufw.apply(docker_dir, host_dir, dry_run=args.dry_run)
+    else:
         ctx.log.warn(f"Docker rules dir not found at {docker_dir}. Skipping ufw-docker rules.")
-    ctx.ufw.apply(docker_dir, host_dir if os.path.isdir(host_dir) else None, dry_run=args.dry_run)
+        if os.path.isdir(host_dir):
+            ctx.ufw.apply(docker_dir, host_dir, dry_run=args.dry_run)
     ctx.log.success("Configured ufw.")